Baby Caskets I Went To A Funeral For A 18 Day Old Baby, I Am Usure If What I Said Was Nice?
I went to a funeral for a 18 day old baby, I am usure if what I said was nice? - baby caskets
A colleague of mine lost her baby in 3 weeks. The child died of heart failure.
Today I am at the funeral and pressed against him, and then kissed his wife and said: "I'm sorry." She said: "Thanks for coming, so much for us means"
He smiled and said: "Happy to be there for you." Then I saw the flowers and told us and surround the coffin: "Everything looks so nice for him."
So I thought maybe I would not say, because their are supposed to be a sad moment, not a "beautiful" moment. I mean, everything was good for the child and how much she loved them.
What do you think? Do you think she knew what she understood?
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35 comments:
You said exactly what it needs. They wanted to be anything nice for your precious baby and I wanted that everybody knows how much I loved her. His comments were perfect.
I think what he said was very nice. You knew he was sincere, and really .... There is nothing in a perfect moment to say!
She has a great job, and you're a very cooperative workers.
I'm sure he knew what a lie! Dont worry about it! God, I know it's so hard for it! I could not imagine losing my Lil Man! : (
I think he understands that the review could have a good life if he is still alive! I'm sure they were there to mourn honor, and life a little less than he had to celebrate indeed! Like all parents want the best for their children and will do everything to make them happy and contented and well, in planning his funeral, and although she could see what their young eyes. I'm sorry to hear of this loss, my condolences for the little angel. What he said was not rude in any way .. I'm sure you know it .. May God bless you!
Do not worry, she knew what meant.you are very polite?
It is a sad moment for those of us here on Earth, but if your a Christian, like me, then there must be a sad moment. Trust me, I know it sounds crazy, but the child is with God and can not hurt to see him or injure you. When a loved one goes to heaven, then this is a very nice, although we are perhaps on the ground. I am sure, are understood ur friend.
My baby died when he say 3 months and the people that was really stupid things. What he said was not so bad. It is very stressful for the funeral of a baby, even if his son. Do not punish. Okay.
I'm sure he knew what he meant. Probably was the fact that sometimes people feel comfortable at funerals, especially funerals of children, and sometimes do not know what to say.
What he said sounds good to me. I am sure, understand them.
I think those words were good. I do not think that the moment itself.
You said it right! There is nothing wrong.
Oh, I hate situations ...... I think you're good
I'm sure he knew what he meant. You do not have much.
I think he said something kind and loving. In all honesty, his colleague probably will not process what she said. If my child was dead, I would be insensitive and barely functioning. What do you think that you have attended the funeral and are cared for, and assisting them in these difficult times.
It is always difficult to know what to say. Whatever you say, it's unpleasant and uncomfortable. They have very good.
I'm sure he knew what he meant. I think it is a good way to let you know who the funeral of a beautiful place and easy to remember his son. In any case, you know what you are doing good things for his son because of what you have said and done.
I'm sure he knew what he meant. I think it is a good way to let you know who the funeral of a beautiful place and easy to remember his son. In any case, you know what you are doing good things for his son because of what you have said and done.
Even if, as has been said, he had good intentions, do not worry.
I agree it would probably say the same thing, I think, what makes you the new environment, I wouldnt respect xx
Yes, it deffinitely what he said, have not thought of something else ............ U do not feel bad
I think he has very good ... she knew what she meant. It will handle the situation perfectly.
I think he has very good ... she knew what she meant. It will handle the situation perfectly.
My brother just at the funeral of a young girl who has 1 week. Share in a company instead of a coffin and a mobile hanging over his head and his daughter wanted to be remembered.
The funeral was for him .. and it would be good for him. Thus, his last day here ... what he said was very good. Yes .. This is a very sad ... very difficult to treat .. But if you believe me .. when we .. our souls are still there .. the child saw the beauty that surrounds it. . and comforted him.
Yes, I'm sure it would be disgusted to say.
It was very nice and I'm sure she has much more in mind that everything he said, after all, your life never be the same, and they need more support.
It was very nice and I'm sure she has much more in mind that everything he said, after all, your life never be the same, and they need more support.
Others very well HUN
Of course he knew what he meant. What he said was very nice - well, was nice funeral, the only thing that could have done for the child. You should not worry about it.
She knew what he meant, although we found resistant to both. After it heals a little more reach.
She knew what he meant, although we found resistant to both. After it heals a little more reach.
My mother told me the same very good friends of us yesterday morning at a funeral. Believe me, I've done nothing wrong. I am sure that his words were very comforting.
Yes, he knew what he meant, he would have appreciated.
What he said was very reassuring. My sister lost a baby of 2 months. I remember standing next to the field, and she said to me: "Have they not nice out?" If you opt for a monument ... Someone has done something good for my sister was a children's book to donate to the local library. You provide the name in memory of (his) inside the housing. It was a nice gesture.
She really knew what he meant. They were nice, and appreciated. It is actually very relieved to hear that you have a good work for the dead, ordered that "was in perfect condition.
Believe me, there are many bad things to say at a funeral. We have a lot of them (at the funeral of my father in particular, "belongs to me."). Are you okay, do not worry. Provide support and ... Food intake is particularly welcomed. :-)
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